Monday, May 4, 2009

Friendships

In life you meet few people who are true friends. I think the older you get the better you get at realizing who your true friends are. These are people you can not speak to for days or weeks but when you finally talk it's almost like you talk everyday. These are people who you feel completely comfortable and safe with. These are people who love you despite your personal faults. These are people who you can be pissed at you for a minute but get over it the next. These are people you can confide in and expect that conversation to be in total confidence. These are people who don't judge you because of poor decisions you have made but confront you when you are making those decisions. These are people who would have your back even when you are obviously wrong and behind closed doors say "you were foul". These are people who do not have questionable character. These are people that you are not afraid to let the world know that you are friends. These are people who are not jealous of you and your life accomplishments. These are people who support your life goals and accomplishments. These are the people we want to be in our life for the everything else. As I am typing this lots of good and poor examples of friendships are running through my mind. I have reached a point in my life that I am no longer willing to hold on to what I deem "toxic friendships". So, to all those toxic friends in my life I wish you all the best but in friendship compromising and settling are not viable options!

P.S. OMG Nadia finally!!!!!

1 comment:

  1. You're talking all about me, right?! You know the true friend part... haha! But seriously great post and so TRUE!! I totally agree with what you said, and I can safely say you are a true friend! You're the best!! By the way I am going to add your blog as a link from my blog :)

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